Hay noi ro rang

… ve cam nhan cua ban, nhung voi giong dieu lich su va truc tiep. Cam on nguoi do ve buoi toi danh cho ban, song  giai thich rang ban khong muon moi quan he  nay tien xa hon. Phai giu vung lap truong truoc khi anh ta nhan tin  lai.

Xu su khon ngoan

Neu doi tuong gay ap luc buoc ban phai noi ra ly do  tai sao khong thich hen ho  voi anh ta, ban can kheo leo giai quyet tinh huong, can nhat la khong duoc tho lo. Truong hop anh ta xu te, ban khong can khach sao, hay thang thung tu choi.

Dua ra loi giai thich hop ly

Hay dua ra mot loi giai thich trung thuc. Don gian nhu: “Em khong nghi moi quan he  cua chung ta la dung”. Dung de nghi bat ky dieu gi ban khong the thuc hien duoc nhu “em se goi cho anh sau” (du ban chac chan khong bao gio goi lai) neu khong muon ca hai phai kho xu, boi roi.

Dung phan ung thai qua

Khi doi tuong cu xu khong dep voi loi tu choi cua ban, co the anh ta cam thay bi ton thuong. Hay kiem che, binh tinh va co gang  hieu cho tinh huong do. Gia du anh ta tiep tuc gui mail, hay tra loi trung lap, lich su. Neu cac email tiep tuc duoc gui den thi ban hay lo no di. Cu xu tuong tu voi dien thoai  truc tiep.

Tu choi bat tay lam ban

Neu nguoi bi tu choi noi rang anh ta muon lam ban, nen kheo leo tu choi. Ban can thoi gian  lam moi cac moi quan he  cua minh, boi hen ho  la de tim nguoi thuong chu khong phai tim them mot nguoi ban. Truong hop anh ay that long, cung nen can nhac ve tinh ban ay.

Anh Nguyet

Theo YG

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