Toi co phai la co gai “hu hong”?

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Toi la con gai, tung xem “phim do”, tung co nhung “giac mo”, lieu toi co gi bat thuong hay khong?

Toi co phai la co gai “hu hong”?.

Toi co phai la co gai “hu hong”?

1. Toi nam nay 17 tuoi. O lop, nghe bon con trai tham thi nho to voi nhau ve nhung chuyen lien quan den “XXX”, toi cung “hua” theo lu ban bao ho la hu hong, la the no, the kia... Nhung luc o nha, toi lai tro thanh con nguoi hoan toan khac.

Toi thich nhin nhung tam poster “ho henh” ban day ngoai cho, thich tim hieu “chuyen ay” tren tap chi. Khi tivi chieu nhung bo phim co nhung canh… “kiss” nhau, toi thay bi cuon hut va nhieu khi con len net search de xem lai. Tham chi, toi da tung xem… “phim do”, chi 1,2 lan thoi, nhung thuc su toi thay ghe tom chinh minh.

Toi chua tung co “chuyen do”, tham chi chua co ca nguoi yeu, vay ma toi lai hanh dong nhu vay. Co phai toi la mot dua con gai bat thuong hay khong? Ngay ngay, toi van dan vat minh va khong sao thoat khoi duoc nhung suy nghi do. (T.Linh, Ha Noi)

2. Em nghe noi, o tuoi day thi tui con trai thuong co nhung “giac mo uot” va mo thay nhung hinh anh cua “chuyen ay”.

Em la con gai, nhung tai sao cung co nhung giac mo ve “chuyen do”? No it xay ra thoi, nhung em van so lam. Co phai nhu vay la em bi… dong tinh hay khong? Hay em la dua “hu hong”? (N.M, 16t)

Go roi:

Buoc vao tuoi day thi, cac hormone gioi tinh phat trien manh. Cac hormone do ngoai viec lam cho cac co quan gioi tinh truong thanh, con lam cho cac chang trai co gai tuoi teen co nhung suy nghi dau tien ve tinh duc.

Thong thuong, do “tu nhien” da quy dinh truoc, hormone gioi tinh o cac chang trai phat trien manh me hon va cung lam cho cac ban ay “to mo” hon. Do do, viec tim hieu cac van de lien quan den “XXX” cung nhieu va pho bien hon. Them nua, theo mot so niem thi viec con trai tim hieu “chuyen do” la binh thuong, song neu doi lai la con gai thi lai tro thanh hu, hay… bat thuong.

Con gai co nhung “giac mo” do khong co gi bat thuong ca. Tham chi, dieu do con chung to ban dang lon, rat binh thuong nua co. Vi nhu da noi o tren, “thu pham” la cac hormone gioi tinh, chung se lam ban “to mo” cung nhu co nhung suy nghi ve “XXX”.

Tuy nhien, dieu do khong co nghia la viec tim hieu “XXX” theo nhung cach nhu xem poster, hay “phim do”… duoc khuyen khich. Chung ta co the tim hieu, nhung la tim hieu mot cach lanh manh qua sach bao, qua su huong dan cua bo me, ban be, hoac tai cac buoi tuyen truyen ve suc khoe gioi tinh.

Neu ban trot bi “am anh” boi nhung suy nghi ve “chuyen do”, hay nhung suy nghi rang minh hu hong, xau xa… thi cach duy nhat la phai ngung suy nghi ve no. Boi cang nghi ve no lai cang khien ban khong thoat khoi duoc nhung am anh ay.

Choi mot mon the thao, di shopping, tro chuyen vui ve voi nguoi than hoac ban be… trong thoi gian ranh roi se giup ban thoat khoi dieu do.

DanTri

Updated: 14/02/2008 | Views: 5556 | Comments: 0

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