80% teen Viet "quan he" truoc hon nhan? - Ban co dau.
80% teen Viet "quan he" truoc hon nhan? - Ban khong dau.

Nghiencuu nay cung dua ra nhung li giai cua nguoi trong cuoc - co nhung ligiai rat that, cung co nhung li giai kieu “mu mo”: “choi cho biet”.“Tinh yeu ma khong co chuyen ay nhat nheo ma vo vi”, “Yeu la dang hienca tam hon va the xac moi tron ven”, “Dang nao cung mat thi tot nhat lamat voi nguoi minh yeu”, tham chi “Co tinh duc, moi ham nong duoc tinhyeu va tinh yeu  moi du nhiet”…

Anh minh hoa

Toi cung tre, cung dang yeu, toi thu that “chuyenay” dien ra la do chu dong cua ca doi ben. Boi neu bi ep nhung mottrong hai nguoi khong dong tinh thi cung khong tai nao thuc hien duoc.Du la mot nguoi dan ong  dich thuc, quan diem  cua toi van la: quan niemsong thoang hien gio duoc cac ban nam chap nhan don gian la vi cai loitruoc mat cua ho. Ho len tieng benh vuc cho mot loi song thoang, hochap nhan ban than  ho quan he voi nguoi nay nguoi khac, nhung it khi(va duong nhu khong bao gio) muon cuoi mot nguoi vo da tung "an com truoc keng" nhu the!

Vande toi dua ra o day, chac chan se khong sai: Trong luc yeu, nguoi contrai luon doi hoi nguoi ban gai  phai dang hien tat ca; nhung khi nguoi ban gai  dang hienroi thi trong suy nghi cua nguoi con trai  luc nao cung co cau: An duocroi, no thi thuong sinh chan hoac “Co ta de voi minh, thi doi voi nguoikhac cung vay thoi”; Yeu duong thi lua nguoi dep  yeu va quay toi bennhung khi chon lam vo thi chon nguoi nhan sac binh thuong it ai dom ngode y la tot; Truoc khi co ta den voi minh dang cho minh thi da danghien cho bao nhieu nguoi  khac roi... Do do cac ban gai  khi yeu haynho,cang giu gin cho nhau, cang duoc nguoi yeu  them yeu va ne nhieuday”.

Tinh trang quan he truoc hon nhan  hien khong phai la qua hiem va “song thu” cung duoc coi la mot trongnhung loi song dang ton tai trong xa hoi  chung ta, dac biet doi voigioi tre. Ai do da noi: Loi song khong co toi, chi co anh huong cua nora sao doi voi nhung nguoi xung quanh. Toi cho rang, neu hai ban treyeu nhau, tinh yeu  dat den do co the trao than cho nhau thi du ai do cocam cung chang duoc. Tham chi luc nay tinh hinh lai con them phuc tapboi nhung mau thuan quan diem  se nay sinh. Cang ra suc cam, cang khodat hieu qua.

Nhung noi nhu vay, cung khong phai ban tre muonlam gi thi lam. Khi da dam “song thu nhu la that” thi ngoai viec phaichung to ban linh cua mot con nguoi  that, con la biet dam bao minh dala nguoi khon lon, tranh toi da su phien ha cho nhung nguoi xung quanhma dam lam dam chiu, truoc khi nghi den minh hay nghi den nguoi khachay muon nguoi khac ton trong minh, hay lam cho minh biet cach tontrong nhung nguoi xung quanh la cu the hoa cua viec nay.

Khi hainguoi co quan he voi nhau, ho co quyen lam gi do rieng tu. Quan diemcua toi la: Se chang ai dam ngo vao, neu su rieng tu do chi co 2 nguoido biet. Nhung se la co toi va chac chan se bi xa hoi, du luan  len ankhi ho mang cai rieng tu do ra ngoai, lam anh huong hoac gay phien toaicho moi nguoi… 

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