Con phai nu  ngay naycung dau co vua khi doi hoi ve ban doi cua ho cung cao ngat “voc dangcao, hoc van cao, thu nhap  cao”. Lieu tren doi nay co bao nhieu phantram nhung nguoi dat nhung tieu chuan nhu the, va gia su khi co du baynhieu thi lieu nguoi ta co thoa man het nhung yeu cau cua nguoi ban doicua ho khong ngung dat ra them nua...

Bi kich cua su doi hoi qua nhieu

Ai cung co nhung yeu cauchinh dang ve nhung pham chat can thiet cua nguoi ban doi, nhung thoithuong “duoc voi doi tien”, khi doi den mot cai muc nao do thi se xayra bi kich.

Thuy Tien la mot phu nukha xinh dep  va lang man, lai co chut tai danh ve van nghe  nen duocphai nam ham mo vi the co ra “tieu chuan” ve nguoi chong minh phai laco dia vi xa hoi, lo duoc cho co mot cuoc song  vat chat day du, chieuvo, khong ruou che co bac, trai gai  lang nhang va chung thuy. Thoi buoinao du co... dot duoc di tim mot nguoi dan ong  nhu the cung nhu “timkim day bien” nua la thoi dai nay.

Hay bang long voi nhung gi minh co

The nhung nho may man,Thuy Tien cung tim duoc mot nguoi chong gan giong nhu the. Do la motpho giam doc ky thuat  cua mot cong ty  co khi, co thu nhap  tuong doi khava hien nhu bot voi 5 khong: khong thuoc la, co bac, ruou che, bia omva du co chuc quyen cung khong dam an hoi lo!

Ai cung khenThuy Tien tot phuoc khi tim duoc mot nguoi chong “tren muc tuyet voi”nhu vay. Tu khi lay nhau, anh ta chi biet com nha qua vo, bao nhieu thunhap dua het cho vo. Khi co con anh ta cang bot thoi gian  danh cho banbe de ve cham con cho vo di choi, vi du co con roi nhung Thuy Tien cungkhong bo thoi quen dan dum, ca hat cung ban be  nhu thoi con doc than.Chong co thay chuyen do chang he co hai gi, mien la lam cho vo minhvui.

The nhung cang giao tiep voi nhieu nguoi dan ong  hao hoakhac, Thuy Tien thay chong minh sao ma cuc mich, cu lan, khong mot chutbong bay, bay buom... Ma theo co, nhu the moi la nguoi dan ong  hap dan.Dan dan co dam ra chan chong, nam ben chong co lai mo tuong den nguoidan ong khac nen chuyen chan goi  cung dan dan lot lat...

Nguoichong thay vay cang ra suc chieu vo, nhung cang chieu thi anh ta cangbi vo chan va coi thuong. Cuoi cung, Thuy Tien ngoai tinh voi mot nguoidan ong “co tat ca nhung gi chong co thieu”. Nao thong minh, hao hoa,hom hinh, lang man, deo mom va nhat la biet lam cho co... kho.

Come nguoi dan ong  nay nhu dieu do, du rang anh ta da qua mot doi vo. Cokhong them len lut ma cong khai moi quan he  ay va dung don xin ly honde duoc song voi “nguoi dan ong dich thuc” cua minh! Nguoi chong timmoi cach de cuu van cuoc hon nhan  nhung vo ich, co muon la phai duoc.

Lyhon xong, de con cho chong cu nuoi, Thuy Tien nhu buoc vao mot “thienduong” moi voi tat ca su dam say cua mot nguoi dan ba dang “chin muoi”,nong nan. Nhung den khuc “hau thien duong” co nhan ra tien bac  gio dayrat thieu thon, lam ra tien khong nhieu anh ta lai mang ve nha rat it,vi nguoi dan ong  hao hoa ay khong the khong bu khu voi ban be. Chua kela co phat dien vi ghen khi anh ta tan tinh, ninh not phu nu  dep khactruoc mat co.

Chang bao lau co nhan ra ban chat  cua anh ta dedua ra mot nhan xet  nguoc lai. Neu truoc day co cho rang anh ta “co tatca nhung gi chong cu cua minh thieu” thi gio day “dap an” la “anh tathieu tat ca nhung gi chong cu cua minh co”. Chua ke moi khi co ghentuong con bi anh ta danh dap thang tay! Anh ta cho rang the moi la...dang mat dan ong.

Bay gio moi dem nam ben nguoi dan ong  nongnac mui ruou lan mui nuoc hoa  la, Thuy Tien lai dam ra mo tuong nhungngay em dem song ben nguoi chong cu hien lanh, yeu chieu minh rat muc,gia ma co biet bang long voi nhung gi minh co, dung doi hoi qua dangthi gio nay co hanh phuc  biet bao! Nhung moi viec da qua muon.

Phainam thi cang co nhung doi hoi ma hau het nhung nguoi vo cua ho du cogang den dau cung kho dap ung cho du. Chang han nguoi dan ong  nao ngaycung mot gia di, xau di, yeu di... The nhung ho luon muon vo minh phaitre mai, dep mai, khoe mai.

Trong khi nhung nguoi vo theo namthang phai lam lung, sinh no, hau chong, cham con vat va, tat yeu segia di, tham chi con gia nhanh hon chong neu thieu thon ve vat chat haythieu su quan tam, yeu thuong cua chong... Khi vo khong con tre dep,goi tinh nua thi khong it ong tim den nhung phu nu  khac, ke ca nhung cogai diem dang, chieu chuong cac ong chi de moi tien. Nhat la cac ong cochuc, co quyen, co tien thi cang de phu bac vo.

Ho che nguoivo cua minh de tim nhung co gai  tre dep lam bo nhi, vo be, gai  bao deroi dan den canh gia dinh  tan nat, con bi mat uy tin. Tham chi matchuc, mat quyen. Vi de cung phung cho nhung co gai  tre ay, de cac cothoa cai thu dem tien, ho phai an cap cua Nha nuoc  bang moi cach va saudo vao tu ngoi... dem lich.

Cho nen nhung con nguoi  khonngoan, khong chi biet du ve vat chat ma con phai biet nhung gi can vadu o nguoi ban doi cua minh, biet chap nhan de song hanh phuc. Va motdieu quan trong  la khi doi hoi nhung dieu tot dep o nguoi vo hay chongminh thi cung nen tu hoi minh co tuong xung voi nhung gi doi hoi onguoi ban doi hay khong.

Vi khong hiem nhung chang trai co gaico be ngoai khiem ton nhung chi mo ve nhung nguoi dep  de hoac tai nangkem coi nhung chi muon yeu hay cuoi nhung nguoi noi tieng, tai nang.Minh song buong tha, truy lac lai muon nguoi ban doi phai mau muc, daoduc day minh... thi qua la hoang tuong!

Hay soi guong lai chinh minh

Co mot cau chuyen vuirang o mot thanh pho  no, ngay kia bong co mot toa nha lon treo banghieu “O day ban se tim duoc nguoi vo vua y nhat”. Khoi phai noi la canhdan ong chua vo do xo tim den vi ve vao cua co gia rat re. Bo ra chuttien com nhu the ma tim duoc nguoi vo ung y nhat thi ai ma khong...tham.

Ho gom du moi lua tuoi,thanh phan, nghe nghiep... Khi can phong dau tien mo ra, cac ong thayco 2 canh cua voi chu ghi mot ben la “Tre” va ben kia la “Khong contre”. Tat nhien tat ca cac ong deu muon co mot nguoi vo tre nen ao vaocanh cua “tre”.

Vao duoc do roi thi ho van chua tim thay motco gai  tre nao ma co 2 canh cua khac mo ra voi 2 chu trai nguoc nhau,mot ben la “Dep” va mot ben la “Xau”. Dien gi ma lay xau? Cho nen tatca cac ong chen lan de vao duoc canh cua de den voi nguoi dep. Cu thetiep tuc, 2 canh cua ke do la “Giau” va “Ngheo”. 100% cac ong chon vogiau, duong nhien. Roi 2 canh cua “Kheo leo” va “Vung ve” mo ra, ketiep la 2 canh cua “Hien diu” va “Hung du”...

Cho den khi cacong chon du mot nguoi vo hoan my thi chi con co mot canh cua duy nhatva truoc mat ho la mot tam guong lon voi dong chu “Hay soi guong laichinh minh!” Du khong co y soi nhung tam guong lon sang bong khong mothat bui cung phan chieu day du “chan dung” cua quy ong.

Trongdam “xuan xanh” ay khong hiem nhung ong lun tit hoac gay tong teo, chandi ca thot hoac ngheo rot mong toi, hoc hanh chang toi dau lai som saychieu xin, bat tai vo tuong... nhung doi hoi cua ho ve nguoi ban doithi... Thuong de cung phai mim cuoi! Nao la tre, dep, giau, thong minh,dam dang, hien lanh, chung thuy, biet chieu chong! Neu co mot toa nhade “chon chong” kieu nhu the cho phai nu  thi co le ket qua cung tuongtu.

Ban co y kien gi ve bai viet Nhung doi hoi vo tan trong cuoc song lua doi nay? Hay goi suy nghi, binh luan, danh gia, loi khuyen ... cua ban ve bai viet Nhung doi hoi vo tan trong cuoc song lua doi ban tai day.