Tu xa xua nguoi ta van giu quan niem dan ong la tru cot gia dinh, la nguoi kiem tien  nuoi vo con, la nguoi “gieo giong”, boi ho manh ve co bap va “manh” trong ca “chuyen ay”.

Tuy nhien, neu xem phim  Tau, phim  ta, thi trong cac trieu dai phong kien deu co ngu y cham soc tu bua an, dieu chinh thuoc men de duc vua du suc thuong trieu va ban on mua moc cho hang tram cung tan my nu. Thoi nay xin cho nhin mot nguoi dan ong  cao 1m70, nang 80 kg be ve buoc len xe hoi sang trong ma bao la ho “manh”. Co the ho manh ve tien bac  nhung lai khong he manh tren giuong.

Benh thuong gap cua dan ong:

Hay gap nhat (chiem 30 - 40% nam gioi) la b e  n h “sung cuop co”. Day la can benh lam dan ong lung tung. Ro rang hai ben o tu the “san sang chien dau”, nhung co ong chua kip “xap la ca” thi “sung” no, dan roi tu tung. Dan minh goi truong hop nay la “Chua ra den cho da roi het tien”, mot cach vi von rat chinh xac. Tinh the do khoc do meu do thuong thay o nhung cuoc tinh ngoai luong, hai ben deu lach kheo mai moi co co hoi gap go.

Den khach san  voi tam trang so nguoi khac biet, len lut nhung vo phong thi non nong, hoi hop, xuc dong y nhu tinh yeu  dau doi, “cau nho” cung chiu chung tam trang ay va the la... cong coc. Ca hai be bang danh hen lan sau hi vong “tap 2” se hay hon “tap 1”.

Truong hop khac la nhung cap tan hon. Trong tiec cuoi, chu re  ham vui uong hoi nhieu, nhung chua say. Co dau e le, boi roi va dep me hon cang kich thich ham muon cua chang, va khi “sung” bat dau cham vao “dong thien thai” thi vai dan. Nhung tuong dem than tien se me ly lam, ho roi vao that vong, kho noi chuyen va neu chu re  ngu khi thi co dau se thao thuc voi hang ta cau hoi: Chac la anh ay “yeu sinh ly” ma sao minh khong tinh truoc dieu nay? Lai co cap chung song voi nhau 5 - 7 nam, ong chong phan dau leo len chiec ghe truong phong  doi ngoai. Tu do chang phai an nhau cac buoi toi voi doi tac va vong bung cu day len nhu mot... trai bi do. Cung tu do, chang “lam an” theo kieu ca giut.

11 gio khuya tro ve, ong kheu vo voi cap mat mo khong ra, doi tay khong con manh me. Tuy vay, ba vo van nhiet tinh. “Sung” cham vao “don dich” chua chua day 1 phut da “cuop co” de lai su nghi ngo trong long ba vo: “Phai chang ong da lam an tu A den Z nen moi nhu vay? Truoc day ong manh lam ma!”. Vay bao lau goi la “sung cuop co”? Neu cong chuyen “lam an” dien ra chua day 01 phut lai tai di tai lai lien tuc thi theo gioi chuyen mon do la xuat tinh som (Premature ejaculation).

Du sao “sung cuop co” cung con do, boi khi can thi “han” con the hien duoc cai “dung khi” ban dau. Mac cam nhat, buon nhat la quy ong bi “sung tit ngoi”. Dan minh dung cum tu rat chinh xac  la “Tren bao duoi khong nghe”, boi cai dau con nong hoi hoi nhung chi dao “lam viec” thi co quan  chu quan cu i ra.

Theo thong ke  cua To chuc Y te the gioi  thi co 152 trieu dan ong toan cau  bi chung benh nay. Do tuoi tren 40 chiem nhieu nhat, khoang 50% trong so dan ong tu tuan bi nhieu hay it chung “Tren bao duoi khong nghe”. Hinh anh  mot ong than hinh to lon, day da, vong 2 hon 90cm khong con la niem khao khat cua phai dep theo quan niem xua “phat tuong phat tai” ma chi em bat dau than trong, canh giac “coi chung ho mat di niem vui chan goi”.

Nghien cuu tren 22.000 nam gioi o My cho thay 90% dan ong bi “sung tit ngoi” deu beo phi, 50% so ho co hut thuoc la,70% bi tieu duong, 45% co uong ruou thuong xuyen, so con lai moi lien quan den chan thuong cot song, stress trien mien va gia dinh  bat hanh. Neu dan ong khong the day do, dieu khien “cai ay” trong thoi gian  tu 2 thang tro len thi do la “sung tit ngoi”. Hau qua se la tu ti, chan nan, dan ong Viet Nam  thuong tim den ruou de “quen het su doi”. Ho dong nghia “chuyen ay” voi ban linh va suc manh, thieu no ke nhu “cuoc doi di tong”!

Lam sao giai quyet?

Tinh trang “sung cuop co” duoc cac nha tinh duc  hoc cho rang 80% la do yeu to tam ly. Vao tran lan dau khong nhu y, ba xa che bai thi lan sau chua vao cuoc da lon von chu “THUA” va that bai cam chac. Mot khung canh thoai mai, ba xa hop tac da giai quyet 50%, so con lai d u o  c khuyen nen kim nen cam xuc, co the nghi den chuyen khac, hoac co the giam do nhay cua “cau nho” bang 2 lan bao cao su...

Nhieu nguoi se thac mac: tai sao khong co thuoc? O My, bac si Jon L Pryor nghien cuu  dung Dapoxetine (mot loai chong tram cam) cho hon 22.000 dan ong uong, nham tang cuong serotonin trong nao thi thoi gian  qua la keo dai ra.

Nhung ban cung dung cho nhung vien thuoc, boi chung chua duoc phep va duong nhien la phai chiu tac dung phu. Trong khi cho doi thi giai quyet tam ly non nong cua ban va ca ba xa ban. Voi “sung tit ngoi” thi giai quyet benh toan than va loi song (beo phi, tieu duong, thuoc la, ruou, tang hoat dong  the luc...) la quan trong. Tit Tuot toi da tung chua tri cho nhieu anh beo phi bi “sung tit ngoi” sau khi giam chung 10 - 15kg la vu kia cung ngon lanh.

Neu chang may ban da co gang  nhung khong mang lai ket qua gi thi hay su dung “vien thuoc tinh yeu” co hoat chat chinh la Sildenafil (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra..) boi no tac dong truc tiep  den phan xa cuong. Tuy nhien chung chi co tac dung khi cai dau ban con nong, va nho tham khao y kien cua bac si, boi neu ban dang dung thuoc tim mach thi coi chung... dut bong!

Ban co y kien gi ve bai viet Ban cua dan ong nay? Hay goi suy nghi, binh luan, danh gia, loi khuyen ... cua ban ve bai viet Ban cua dan ong ban tai day.